Sunday, December 05, 2004
5 love languages.
I was introduced to this book by a F.T worker in SP Nav. when he mentioned abt his expeiences working with the youths in his ch, so he brought up this book. Was so amazed by what he shared, i decided to purchase 1 as well.
As i read this book, i realised what are my love languages, ie how do i feel loved and expressing love to others. In the book, the writer wrote there's 5 love ways of expressing our love.
1) Words of affirmation
2) Physical touch
3) Quality time
4) Acts of service
5) Gifts
thought everyone of us may feel loved or express love differently. but to different pp, may be different at even the same situation. But our love tank will never be filled up by human efforts as we are fallen creatures, Only God can fill up our love tank. Though sometimes, i may felt so unloved. But our last CG, God says that he loved up so much that he took pains just to create us so that we can enjoy him. so when i feel loved the most? actually i happened to drop by M's blog thru hz's blog. Happened tt she wrote oso on love languages, the few questions that we shd ask ourselves to sort of test what's our love L. i feel loved the least is when i received gifts. to me, gifts are just gifts.Gifts may get spoilt/lost but the time spent wont be. :) i enjoyed spending quality time when i can get to have a in depth sharing rather than receiving gifts. i always feel so loved when been hugged(physical touch).
I grew up with an almost empty love tank, and my parents dont expressed love so physically or verbally. sometimes it very hard for me to understand God's love, God's unconditional love. Used to thought that love is conditional, the head knowledge sometimes just cant get inside of me. That's all for today, sorry guys, my England had yet improved at all even though so many times of postings.
As i read this book, i realised what are my love languages, ie how do i feel loved and expressing love to others. In the book, the writer wrote there's 5 love ways of expressing our love.
1) Words of affirmation
2) Physical touch
3) Quality time
4) Acts of service
5) Gifts
thought everyone of us may feel loved or express love differently. but to different pp, may be different at even the same situation. But our love tank will never be filled up by human efforts as we are fallen creatures, Only God can fill up our love tank. Though sometimes, i may felt so unloved. But our last CG, God says that he loved up so much that he took pains just to create us so that we can enjoy him. so when i feel loved the most? actually i happened to drop by M's blog thru hz's blog. Happened tt she wrote oso on love languages, the few questions that we shd ask ourselves to sort of test what's our love L. i feel loved the least is when i received gifts. to me, gifts are just gifts.Gifts may get spoilt/lost but the time spent wont be. :) i enjoyed spending quality time when i can get to have a in depth sharing rather than receiving gifts. i always feel so loved when been hugged(physical touch).
I grew up with an almost empty love tank, and my parents dont expressed love so physically or verbally. sometimes it very hard for me to understand God's love, God's unconditional love. Used to thought that love is conditional, the head knowledge sometimes just cant get inside of me. That's all for today, sorry guys, my England had yet improved at all even though so many times of postings.
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