Thursday, December 22, 2005
Another Colek's leaving....
hmmm, as usual... for the past 2 days, have been lunching out with this colek of mine, tck (also same team with me) and W ( from another team)...today C also joined in.... was drizzling when we stepped out office for lunch today.... Went to our usual hangout behind our office though the food wasnt that cheap and lotsa of crowd from our building... No choice, pp would rather eat there rather walking all the way out to the nearby market/kopitiam or fastfood... unless u can afford to walk abt 15mins to reach the destination.... (that's how wu lo our office is)....
Every time lunch with ck, w, c and sometime CL would join us sometimes... but, he's on reservist for the past 2 week plus.... It's always very fun lunching with them.... coz they really keep joking... haha.... they's such a fun pp except that some of them smokes... but it's fine with me.... As usual, ck would complains abt our "boss" whom she lovingly addressed him as "bloody old man"..... seems, that only she's the only 1 who dares to defy our boss openly.... (the other 1, P who defies our boss has since left the com)... hmmm, i can still remembered the quarrels btw the P and our boss so loud that the pp in the offices can hear the details.... she would complains in such a humor way, that we just couldnt helped but laugh along her jokes.... Think she's one of the ways to help me release some of the work stress.... haha.... she's leaving in the 1st week of Jan next year.... which i think 1 less funny lunch companion next year.... some mentioned that they also planning to leave too.... 1 of the pp in my team still yet confirmed despite of her good performances (>6 mths)....
hmmm, think as what my lunch kakis mentioned, my boss is a very insecured pp... full of pride refusing to admit he's wrong when he's really wrong and will want to contest you to prove that u wrong even when u r right, pushing blames on other pp when he's at fault, wan to pull you down in front of pp, listening to gossips without finding out the truth/facts first, always insist that he's right and his methods are always right.... blurrr.... think the rest of my team pp just dun want to get in bad books.... oh, yes... he's very personal person, once you offend him, expect him to get back at u in due time....dun expects him to give u more responsibilites, instead he will starts to withdraw all your workloads and then sabo u in front of the directors during the "eat-in- lunch"
Ya, it happens to me before.... and it happened to ck... now that she "throws in the towel", everyday could see our boss would call her in and pick sometimes just to push the "blame" to her or just finding some1 to quarrel.... sometimes find myself sympathize with her... it's not entire her fault (heard from her that our boss will insist her to do something that he think it's right but actually not lah)... so she will reasoned with the boss... but end up arguing with each other coz our boss dun wan to hear her pt of view... n insist that she do...so when she do and he questioned her y she go and do and he will say he never instruct her to do.... aiyah.... it's like after u shit, then u ask some1 to wipe your backside... wow lao... have seen and experienced it myself during my 1 year stay here... could understand how she felt....
oh, did i mentioned that my boss is a christian? though he never mentioned to me b4 but he sort of broadcast to the rest liao... heard it 1st time from my supervisor then from ck... but didnt he know of the consequences meh? didnt he realised that none of our team pp dislike him til to the extent that we decided to exclude him from our Xmas lunch tmr? didnt he realised that his actions has hurt us in some ways or another? hmmm, didnt he asked himself y the rest of the "bosses" can get along and even become friends with their subordinates? today the team next to our team went out for xmas lunch and they invited their" boss".... could c the bond that hold the team together.... hmmm....
Anyway, i'm too hurt that i'm numb already!!!
Every time lunch with ck, w, c and sometime CL would join us sometimes... but, he's on reservist for the past 2 week plus.... It's always very fun lunching with them.... coz they really keep joking... haha.... they's such a fun pp except that some of them smokes... but it's fine with me.... As usual, ck would complains abt our "boss" whom she lovingly addressed him as "bloody old man"..... seems, that only she's the only 1 who dares to defy our boss openly.... (the other 1, P who defies our boss has since left the com)... hmmm, i can still remembered the quarrels btw the P and our boss so loud that the pp in the offices can hear the details.... she would complains in such a humor way, that we just couldnt helped but laugh along her jokes.... Think she's one of the ways to help me release some of the work stress.... haha.... she's leaving in the 1st week of Jan next year.... which i think 1 less funny lunch companion next year.... some mentioned that they also planning to leave too.... 1 of the pp in my team still yet confirmed despite of her good performances (>6 mths)....
hmmm, think as what my lunch kakis mentioned, my boss is a very insecured pp... full of pride refusing to admit he's wrong when he's really wrong and will want to contest you to prove that u wrong even when u r right, pushing blames on other pp when he's at fault, wan to pull you down in front of pp, listening to gossips without finding out the truth/facts first, always insist that he's right and his methods are always right.... blurrr.... think the rest of my team pp just dun want to get in bad books.... oh, yes... he's very personal person, once you offend him, expect him to get back at u in due time....dun expects him to give u more responsibilites, instead he will starts to withdraw all your workloads and then sabo u in front of the directors during the "eat-in- lunch"
Ya, it happens to me before.... and it happened to ck... now that she "throws in the towel", everyday could see our boss would call her in and pick sometimes just to push the "blame" to her or just finding some1 to quarrel.... sometimes find myself sympathize with her... it's not entire her fault (heard from her that our boss will insist her to do something that he think it's right but actually not lah)... so she will reasoned with the boss... but end up arguing with each other coz our boss dun wan to hear her pt of view... n insist that she do...so when she do and he questioned her y she go and do and he will say he never instruct her to do.... aiyah.... it's like after u shit, then u ask some1 to wipe your backside... wow lao... have seen and experienced it myself during my 1 year stay here... could understand how she felt....
oh, did i mentioned that my boss is a christian? though he never mentioned to me b4 but he sort of broadcast to the rest liao... heard it 1st time from my supervisor then from ck... but didnt he know of the consequences meh? didnt he realised that none of our team pp dislike him til to the extent that we decided to exclude him from our Xmas lunch tmr? didnt he realised that his actions has hurt us in some ways or another? hmmm, didnt he asked himself y the rest of the "bosses" can get along and even become friends with their subordinates? today the team next to our team went out for xmas lunch and they invited their" boss".... could c the bond that hold the team together.... hmmm....
Anyway, i'm too hurt that i'm numb already!!!
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