Saturday, January 07, 2006
Random thoughts from CG yesterday.
Was reading on one of the books which i have bought more than 2 years ago, thru the recommendation by a sister from my cg in our Hope Camp. Titled "The Five Love Languages for Singles".... more than 5 finger years ago, similar a bro from SP Nav recommended that book too but though it was for teenagers... have bought 2 of such books and sitting in my book-shelf collecting dust... was clearing my room last week end and i happened/been prompted to have a look at this books out of so many other books... at first just glanced thru, but earlier of this week, began to read thru the contents and as well to discover my love languages... Ever since, i bought the book, have only read it once and quite glancing thru that kind of pattern... haha...
Hmmm, though my primary love language still around the same, but of course, changes took place like how i use the love languages to others... well, my cg have been a marvelleous place for me to learn to speak new love languages like words of affirmations, physical touch, acts of service, gifts and quality time... though i shd admit that i'm still learning to put them into practise... in church, my cgl has been a great example for me to put them into practise. of course i learn from her how to show love in diff aspects... i'm still in the process of learning... given that all the 5 love languages are quite a alien language to me... obviously, i'm haven got hold of any of them now... sad to say... hmmm, like what the author said, the first few pp i shd learn to put the 5 languages to practise is to bring it to my family members... say is beri easy, but put them into practise is another matter after all...
Even as i reflected what happened in the year 2005, it just dawned to me that i have been indeed quite blessed... not in S11 terms.... but in other areas... like what our ch motto is "Blessed to bless" dun really happen to me but..coming soon hopefully...hehe... i have to admit that i have lotsa of thanksgivings to thank God for... for what He has done in my life and how He has change my situations from beyond hope to some positive... though bad side, have few regrets... hope that i will learn from these few regrets... of course life is not a bed of roses... but i shd live my life as what Jesus promised that He came so that we can have a full and victorious christian life. Here are some of them:-
1)Work. (how God has change from hopelessness to hope in my current workplace... hmmm remembered how i used to complain to my cg mates last year...haha)now, with additional tasks to do and ample chances to learn.. not that i dun have chances at that pt of time but... relationships with coleks turned for better... esp blessed with a really patient supervisor.. hmmm, what can i ask for even better things to come?
2)Personal life (though sometimes i do struggle loving myself as what God loves me and how i shd love myself as a princess of God).. given that i grow up in quite a "negative" home. but at least take some practical steps towards that goal... hopefully with pay increment this year, will have more spare cash to work towards this goal. =) hmmm, plus entrusting my past hurts and allowing healing to take place rather than i trying to work things out my way... a long way to go indeed...
3)Spiritual walk (answered prayers, and how God speaks to me in unique ways.... one incident God speaks to me was one night after my QT, hmmm how God speaks to me abt one of the "hidden hurts" which it never occurs to me until that night... received emotional healing as i surrendered to God) and many others.... too little spaces to write. will share more if there's opportunities.. ya, i will too strive to grow more like Christ. To know Him and to make Him Known... yeah.
4)People whom God bring them into my life to help, motivate and push me along in all aspects of my life... hmmm, pp like Joyce, SM, Na, my dear CGL n cell mates n friends. I'm so blessed... issit it? oh ya, and i'm very grateful for that... always... for their ever patiences, perseverences, encouragements, kind advices and tips... and pushing me... hehe.. even tips on how to be attractive lady from a dear sis..will remembered them as long as i live.. hmmmm,am taking baby steps in working out now.
5)Changes in life... (life phases)... like moving back to pl, departures of pastors etc... how i tried to to depend on my own strength and end up been stressed out... have learnt it the hard way... anyway, i'm on the process of learning to cast all my cares and concerns to God in prayers rather than on my own ability... hmmm, i'm still a "in progress" product... thank goodness... hehehee..
May year 2006 will be a break-thru year for me as i continue to learn from the Lord.. yeah... Jia You!!!
Hmmm, though my primary love language still around the same, but of course, changes took place like how i use the love languages to others... well, my cg have been a marvelleous place for me to learn to speak new love languages like words of affirmations, physical touch, acts of service, gifts and quality time... though i shd admit that i'm still learning to put them into practise... in church, my cgl has been a great example for me to put them into practise. of course i learn from her how to show love in diff aspects... i'm still in the process of learning... given that all the 5 love languages are quite a alien language to me... obviously, i'm haven got hold of any of them now... sad to say... hmmm, like what the author said, the first few pp i shd learn to put the 5 languages to practise is to bring it to my family members... say is beri easy, but put them into practise is another matter after all...
Even as i reflected what happened in the year 2005, it just dawned to me that i have been indeed quite blessed... not in S11 terms.... but in other areas... like what our ch motto is "Blessed to bless" dun really happen to me but..coming soon hopefully...hehe... i have to admit that i have lotsa of thanksgivings to thank God for... for what He has done in my life and how He has change my situations from beyond hope to some positive... though bad side, have few regrets... hope that i will learn from these few regrets... of course life is not a bed of roses... but i shd live my life as what Jesus promised that He came so that we can have a full and victorious christian life. Here are some of them:-
1)Work. (how God has change from hopelessness to hope in my current workplace... hmmm remembered how i used to complain to my cg mates last year...haha)now, with additional tasks to do and ample chances to learn.. not that i dun have chances at that pt of time but... relationships with coleks turned for better... esp blessed with a really patient supervisor.. hmmm, what can i ask for even better things to come?
2)Personal life (though sometimes i do struggle loving myself as what God loves me and how i shd love myself as a princess of God).. given that i grow up in quite a "negative" home. but at least take some practical steps towards that goal... hopefully with pay increment this year, will have more spare cash to work towards this goal. =) hmmm, plus entrusting my past hurts and allowing healing to take place rather than i trying to work things out my way... a long way to go indeed...
3)Spiritual walk (answered prayers, and how God speaks to me in unique ways.... one incident God speaks to me was one night after my QT, hmmm how God speaks to me abt one of the "hidden hurts" which it never occurs to me until that night... received emotional healing as i surrendered to God) and many others.... too little spaces to write. will share more if there's opportunities.. ya, i will too strive to grow more like Christ. To know Him and to make Him Known... yeah.
4)People whom God bring them into my life to help, motivate and push me along in all aspects of my life... hmmm, pp like Joyce, SM, Na, my dear CGL n cell mates n friends. I'm so blessed... issit it? oh ya, and i'm very grateful for that... always... for their ever patiences, perseverences, encouragements, kind advices and tips... and pushing me... hehe.. even tips on how to be attractive lady from a dear sis..will remembered them as long as i live.. hmmmm,am taking baby steps in working out now.
5)Changes in life... (life phases)... like moving back to pl, departures of pastors etc... how i tried to to depend on my own strength and end up been stressed out... have learnt it the hard way... anyway, i'm on the process of learning to cast all my cares and concerns to God in prayers rather than on my own ability... hmmm, i'm still a "in progress" product... thank goodness... hehehee..
May year 2006 will be a break-thru year for me as i continue to learn from the Lord.. yeah... Jia You!!!
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