Wednesday, January 19, 2005
Fin read'g e 5 Love Languages.
I have finished read'g e 5 Love Languages for Single. In all, i have read two books of this author; 1 for e single, e other for teens.
I was drawn to this book when i was in poly 2nd yr when one of the full time staff mentioned in his newsletter that he had read it and benefited him. Love languages was then quite 'alien' to me, and that's attracted me to search over Spore Christian bookstore just to get hold of that book....
Having read e 2 diff bks, i'm more incline to e "single", having lots questions at the end of e diff chp's to ponder over, questions that helps to ask ourselves that mayb wont be so easily come out unless we sit down and think through, and finally got the questionaries to confirm/or help ourselves know ourselves by knowing our primary love languages. Well, after taking the questionare, i found out that it's diff from what i took during the family retreat, but not that much.
after completing e whole book, though that i felt it was relatively a good application book, but if i do not do the applications, will seems that my time would have been wasted on reading the book.... hmmmm.....
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I was drawn to this book when i was in poly 2nd yr when one of the full time staff mentioned in his newsletter that he had read it and benefited him. Love languages was then quite 'alien' to me, and that's attracted me to search over Spore Christian bookstore just to get hold of that book....
Having read e 2 diff bks, i'm more incline to e "single", having lots questions at the end of e diff chp's to ponder over, questions that helps to ask ourselves that mayb wont be so easily come out unless we sit down and think through, and finally got the questionaries to confirm/or help ourselves know ourselves by knowing our primary love languages. Well, after taking the questionare, i found out that it's diff from what i took during the family retreat, but not that much.
after completing e whole book, though that i felt it was relatively a good application book, but if i do not do the applications, will seems that my time would have been wasted on reading the book.... hmmmm.....
Thursday, January 06, 2005
:(
Actually, i'm too stressed to even think of posting my tots online, but since it's has been quite some time the last time i wrote my tots online, i have to force myself to write something.
Have been quite stressed up over work for the past weeks, i was sort of trying to avoid the problem by putting it aside, hoping that it will go away by itself but things seems to get bad to worse. Just today, someone told me that i can be "gan thiong" easily, and he advised me not to do things just to please others or to meet my high expectations....hmmm, i think he was right, i have been trying too hard and end up being totally exhausted, am i trying too hard to meet my superior's expectations? hmmm, think my head is getting bigger and bigger each passing day and i dun even know how to help myself??? ??? Oh no!!!
also, i see myself end up being quite unproductive due to my super high stressed symtoms....and i end up "laying eggs" on the tasks given to me.... :( not a good thing after all!!! how can i allow myself to end up in this state? aiyooh!!
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Have been quite stressed up over work for the past weeks, i was sort of trying to avoid the problem by putting it aside, hoping that it will go away by itself but things seems to get bad to worse. Just today, someone told me that i can be "gan thiong" easily, and he advised me not to do things just to please others or to meet my high expectations....hmmm, i think he was right, i have been trying too hard and end up being totally exhausted, am i trying too hard to meet my superior's expectations? hmmm, think my head is getting bigger and bigger each passing day and i dun even know how to help myself??? ??? Oh no!!!
also, i see myself end up being quite unproductive due to my super high stressed symtoms....and i end up "laying eggs" on the tasks given to me.... :( not a good thing after all!!! how can i allow myself to end up in this state? aiyooh!!
Saturday, January 01, 2005
Continued from the last blog.
Today was super tired, after "tahan" the whole night marathon of playing Bridge with ML,Jen,Ken,Grace and Rac at ML&Des's place. Aftering playing our last round, which i think it's abt 6am if i'm not wrong, all of us headed home. it's really kind of the hosts to allow us to stay in even though one of them have to sacrfice her rest, but she's still wide awake... :p Got the chance to witness the closing of Channel "I" and watching the vampire show and playing Bridge. was really sad that the 2 companies have to merge after 4 years. No more creative variety shows fr Channel U, so have to wait and see the future productions lor...
Reached home early in the morning abt 720am, and got the opportunity to see the sun rise... was so tired, the min i hit my bed, i was fast asleep, but have to force myself to wake up later abt 10 as i have a lunch appt with J&J at borders(mtg pl) Had a meaningful and wonderful lunch, though i didnt participated in much of the conversation, got to listen to their experiences, due to my brain "down". hehe... :) a good excuse not to talk.. after i came back, i slept again, just got up.... hmmm,i think i have to go back and sleep again!!! *YAWN*
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Reached home early in the morning abt 720am, and got the opportunity to see the sun rise... was so tired, the min i hit my bed, i was fast asleep, but have to force myself to wake up later abt 10 as i have a lunch appt with J&J at borders(mtg pl) Had a meaningful and wonderful lunch, though i didnt participated in much of the conversation, got to listen to their experiences, due to my brain "down". hehe... :) a good excuse not to talk.. after i came back, i slept again, just got up.... hmmm,i think i have to go back and sleep again!!! *YAWN*
Finally.... i'm back....blogging!!!
Just realised that it's been almost 2 weeks plus since i last posted something to this online diary... I must said that it's been partly caused by mywork, i'm still struggling to settle in my new working environment, work details i'm still at loss of what to do and when to do(time management), feel quite left out( but after checking with my newcomer, i realised that i'm not alone in this) aiyo, sometimes, i see myself dragging my feet to work.... :( not just that, i found myself having 2 quite "bo chap" coleks whom i'm supposed to work with... feel like complaining some more, but i know the list will go on and on....
On positve note, just want to share something, for the last few days, had been raining quite heavily, as i'm quite lazy to bring umbrella unless it rained heavily...i didnt noticed that everytime from the time, i step out of my house/ somewhere, it will always drizzling but when i reached my destination it will be pouring ny then...at first i also didnt bothered abt it until today when i step out of my place for my lunch appt, it was still quite sunny until when i just reach the bus stop, it just poured. Have to testify that God is good all the time, even when i cannot see it. :)
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On positve note, just want to share something, for the last few days, had been raining quite heavily, as i'm quite lazy to bring umbrella unless it rained heavily...i didnt noticed that everytime from the time, i step out of my house/ somewhere, it will always drizzling but when i reached my destination it will be pouring ny then...at first i also didnt bothered abt it until today when i step out of my place for my lunch appt, it was still quite sunny until when i just reach the bus stop, it just poured. Have to testify that God is good all the time, even when i cannot see it. :)
